Monday, December 18, 2006 @ Monday, December 18, 2006
came back from vietnam!!
and i am so happy because i can like see my parents argue less..
for the whole vietnam trip they have been arguing non stop and making me so irritating.. my both parents who are having pms are so irritating and never bother to give in to each other.. my mother who said that we are selfish never bother to think that she may be the selfish one.. my father who thinks tat he is always right never think that he may not be in the right.. they just keep arguing for days and even sit separately on the bus. .haiz.
come back to singapore still argue.. my father just cant let my mother for once and my mother too.. my father haiz.. the temper worse then bull.. also donno wat to do.. even complain to my grandmother and uncle. haiz. the whole thing abt them sucks. i just wish to run away from all these and live separately with them. my father even said he may want to be like my uncle like tat.. divorce with his wife( which is my mother sister) and go china. haiz. Things never got better.
In vietnam.. many elderly went with them.. many elderly couple were so nice to each other and help each other old. esp one uncle called uncle kwang. He held his wife hand when she walked down the stairs or whenever she need help... break coconut shell and scoop the meat and feed it to her.. always disturb her but tell others she is a good wife. wat a nice man. he always tell jokes lah.. haha.. so funni.. he helped his wife carry stuff bla bla.. although they are like 70 plus years old.. they are so sweet and nice to each other.. the wife hug him in front of ppl too.. hee.. so cute..
although my parents example and many other make me lost the faith in marriage and love but haiz.. i think that in a marriage one must try to accomodate one another.. haiz. if not divorce is realli the best solution i think and DUN BRING TROUBLE TO THE KIDS.. my mother complain to me abt my father and my father complain to me abt my mother.. so tired of listening to them complain argue scold each other.. life realli sucks now and i wish all things will be over soon..
God please help me overcome every thing unhappy that is happening now.. let them like get over all unhappy things.. God.. make my father a better person.. Seriously thank u from the bottom of my heart.. Thanks!
